Uncustomary Membership

Choose what works best for you, for a consistent dose of color, positivity, and cheer!

The Uncustomary Universe is expanding at a rapid rate and you're gonna want to secure your spot! 

You can do that here by becoming an official member -- an Uncustomary Babe!


“I'm a new Uncustomary Babe but already I can see how it will help me in the long run. When I've been down, it seems that Mary's contagious beautiful attitude toward life finds me where I am. Not only is the Facebook group is filled with marvelous people from all walks of life, there are opportunities for growth, reminders to get gentle with yourself, and tips on how to be amazing. It's such a place of love and kindness you won't regret being a part of." - Lisa 

“The Uncustomary Babes group feels like home to me. I always get there when I want a pick me up, to get an opinion on anything, or celebrate a recent win. Mary prompts the group several times a week for things like our gratefulness list to what we want to accomplish, and genuinely does what she can to help! Along with the constant resources Mary provides, the tarot pulls, and support of everyone in the group, I am in for the long haul!" - Maura

"I’ve been signed up for 6 or 7 months now, and the surprise goodie package that comes each month is so perfect. Every month I’m astounded and delighted by the stuff she finds; so many of the cute and fun things are self-affirming and body positive, and many leave me wondering where the heck she found them because they’re so unique.  

Honestly, I was hesitant to sign up at first because money was too tight for me to just add another subscription. I actually “temporarily” dropped a different subscription so I could make it work financially, and oh holy guacamole has this become one of the best parts of each month. Am I gushing? Yep. Is it warranted? Abso-freakin-lutely." - Ashleigh M.

"...For me, the Uncustomary Babes group serves as a great reminder to stop and take a breath. To think not just about what needs to be done, but to take stock of the good things, however small, that happen to me in my day-to-day life; to feel grateful and happy for the little things that so often get overshadowed by life’s bigger worries.  

The Uncustomary Babes group has great resources, and gives me the opportunity to set personal goals and practice gratitude in the midst of hectic work weeks. Posts reminding me to take care of myself and the world around me are invaluable, and often a great way to slow down when things seem to be going too fast.  

The group has been a great source of advice and comfort in troubled times, and a place to share the great things as well. The Uncustomary Babes are a great community of smart, compassionate humans, and I’m grateful to be part of this friendly, supportive community." - Leigh.

“I started following Uncustomary on Instagram. I can't tell you how much Mary's beautiful pictures inspire me everytime that I see them! I fell in love with the colorful pictures that made me smile. Her dedication to body positivity and living in color is infectious! I signed up for the Uncustomary Babes Membership and it's like receiving a party in your mailbox each month! Being part of the Uncustomary Babes Membership makes you feel like you have a cheerleader to cheer you on towards your goals every single day! I encourage everyone to become a part of the fun!!!" - Melissa

Basic Plan - $5

Monthly fee.

You'll get an official membership card as well as access to:  

- The exclusive Facebook support group with devoted babes, willing to share their advice, help you with your struggles, and celebrate your successes with you; find inspiration and enthusiasm for every day life!

- Weekly reminders for goals and gratitude and monthly challenges

- A snail mail surprise in your mailbox (monthly)

- Resources in the form of EFT trainings, meditations, accountability calendars, affirmations, Tarot readings, journaling prompts, playlists and worksheets (updated weekly)

- Content upgrades from blog posts including downloadable lists, printable signs, artwork, etc. (updated monthly)

- 100+ pre-made social media images (both square, vertical, and horizontal) for you to share on your own social media pages (updated weekly)

Awesome Plan - $29

Monthly fee. (+ shipping)

You'll get everything from the Basic Plan (to the left) plus:

- A surprise package of gifts mailed to you (monthly) *

- Exclusive webinars, podcasts, meditations, etc. (monthly)

- Full and New Moon cheat sheets (bi-weekly)

- Entry to win an hour of life coaching giveaway (monthly)

- Access to every free e-course I offer on my website all at once in my classroom (vs. via an e-mail drip service)

- First (or exclusive) access to discounts, promotions, freebies, etc.

* Seriously, these packages are a BANG for your buck

More praise!

“For instant joy in your letterbox Mary’s mail is the best! Rather than just getting bills and junk mail or even worse nothing at all, these packages will cheer you up no end. One of my packages contained amongst many cool and exciting things a “High Five” plastic banner and when I see it on my desk at work it makes me smile every time! If you or your letterbox needs a cheer and a pick-me-up then this subscription is the one for you, a postal fanfare every time! From one very satisfied customer on the other side of the pond." - Scott T. (Positively Postal)

“The monthly surprise package was packed with so many goodies! It really made my day to receive a package like that, where it just seems to keep going and going with surprises. What I love the most is that even though that was a few months ago, there are certain items that I am still thinking about using artfully, so the fun just keeps on giving!" - Olivia D. 

“I love being a member of such a positive, uplifting group! If you join as either a basic member or an awesome plan member, you get access to tons of free content like positive quotes to share online and even fun activities like scavenger hunts. With a basic account, you get access to the Facebook group and fun mail every month and with an awesome plan account, you get the above and a super fun package every month! Mary even has numerous informative classes on various topics for reasonable fees. Mary's group has definitely helped me to feel better about myself!” - April

“Everyone loves getting mail, but this mail is the unicorn of the mail world! I can’t even put into words how uplifted and special I felt when I opened the package from Mary. Day instantly made, as well as several of my friends because of course I shared the fun! If you’re even considering ordering your own, just do your future self a favor and DO IT!” - Kels

“Remember when I was in a pit of despair for several days and nothing at all helped to lift it, then I got a surprise package and it was basically a snail-mailed antidepressant? It’s hard to be sad when you’re wearing giant glasses, applying temporary tattoos and trying to decide whether or not it’s a good idea to eat exciting candy at 1am. This month’s package is the best one yet, and that’s a pretty serious endorsement. You should probably sign up.” - Janice J. 


(Prices include shipping)

Basic Plan Subscription

Awesome Plan Subscription

Awesome Plan One-Time Try


Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Are the e-courses on gratitude, mindfulness, self-care, and self-esteem still free?

A: Yes!

Q: Can I cancel my plan at any time?

A: Yes. You can cancel at any time.

Q: How do I cancel my Plan?

A: You go into your PayPal account, go to Tools >> All Tools >> Recurring Payments, then select the plan and hit cancel

Q: Did the Basic Plan used to be a one time fee?

A: Yes. Postage/snail mail costs are drastically increasing per month, so in order to ensure I'm getting that Happy Mail out to you every month, I need to cover those costs!

Q: If I cancel my Basic Plan, will I lose access to the Facebook Support Group?

A: Unfortunately, yes.

Q: When do I need to sign up by to get the Awesome Plan package for that month?

A: As long as you sign up by midnight PST on the 15th of every month, you will be registered for that current month. Anything after that is automatically enrolled for the following month.

Q: When do the monthly Awesome Plan packages ship out?

A: I have to wait until after the 15th to see how many people sign up, then as soon as possible I go shopping for unique gifts (everything changes each month!), handwrite notes, wrap items, package them, then go to the post office. Short answer? After the 20th of the month, so expect your package towards the end of every month. Allow extra time if you're not in the U.S. 

Q: Can I buy just one month of the Awesome Plan?

A: Yes you can, but it's a couple bucks more.

Q: Can I buy either of the plans for someone else as a gift?

A: Yes! Just let me know who the gift is for at check out.

Q: What kind of gifts can I expect with the Awesome Plan packages?

A: They're completely a surprise and will change every month, but I can promise you they're always something I'd be happy to receive. They'll be colorful for sure, and silly. Functional, but fun. Party supplies, office supplies, craft supplies, stationery/ephemera, trinkets, toys, who knows?!

Q: Are these plans only available to people in the United States?

A: No, I will ship anywhere, but it will obviously be more expensive.

Q: Is shipping included in the $29 listing price?

A: No, for the Awesome Plan; you'll see the different options for shipping at checkout.